Many people struggle to make new friends in midlife. They may have moved to a new city, other friends moved away or for other reasons they’re ready for some new friends. When we are young the situations we’re in lends itself to making friends more easily. In school, everyone shares similar challenges, a similar schedule, […]
I asked thousands of sex positive people on social media what they think of oral sex. Here are some of the answers people shared openly.
Dating by referral can be a useful way to find a life partner. Here’s how to make this strategy work to speed the process of finding the love of your life.
The inability to orgasm affects both men and women. Here’s how to be the most helpful when your partner cannot orgasm.
People often ask me, how they can meet more men or women to date. While it’s great that these people are seeking opportunities, one important thing is often missing. Effectiveness is more important than quantity. After all if you want to catch tuna, going fishing in the creek on the other side of the county won’t […]
If you’re serious about relationship based dating, and finding a life partner, a dating elevator speech can be a helpful tool. When people are networking to find a new job or are self employed it’s common to have a 30 second “elevator speech” prepared. This is just a quick concise summary that tells people the […]
Guest post by Sarah Cummings Modern humans are pretty weird creatures indeed. We are constantly doing things that aren’t in our long term interest. We know climate change is destroying the earth, yet we continue to pump the air full of fumes. We know junk food is killing us, yet we continue to chomp our way […]
After teaching anal massage for more than 20 years, Chester Mainard, sexological bodyworker and long-time faculty for the Body Electric School made this video where he talks about the transformative health benefits of anal massage and how it creates wellbeing for the whole body. Much of what he says in this video also applies to […]
I often hear people say that they want to become more confident sexually. Often they are frustrated as to not knowing how to move forward. One of the big obstacles here is setting a feeling state as a goal. You can’t directly create a feeling state, you can only create the conditions where it is […]
One of the questions many people have asked me about dating is where they can meet friends, dates and soulmates. If you take some initiative and put a little effort into finding opportunities there are lots of them. One of the best ways to meet people to date is in person at events based on […]