Play was a natural part of who we were as children. Over the years, industrial age thinking created a worker mentality – a belief that good things have to be hard.
Think back to a time when you so enjoyed what you were doing that time faded away. It’s likely your focus was purely in the moment.
Even if you were doing something for a future result, you were enjoying the process. You were fully engaged and the experience was joyful.
That experience is the spirit of play.
Then you played! You created fun and community with whoever was around.
That is the spirit of play.
Unfortunately in most western-thinking cultures, relationships, sex and intimacy have become another form of work.
We have to dress (or undress) the right way, say the right things and make the right moves.
In addition, it can seem like you have to do all that at just the right time.
It can be a lot of work trying to do it just right. But we keep trying – and often not enjoying the process.
Imagine intimacy infused with playfulness
Imagine if – instead of hard work – your experience of sex and intimate relating was infused with the spirit of play.
With that playful spirit you could regularly inhabit that place where it’s all about having fun, being in the present moment – and everyone involved feeling great.
Playfulness can help you give up the struggle to do it “right” so that you can relax into fully enjoying every moment of intimacy – both alone with yourself and with a partner.
Relax into expressing your erotic gifts
The spirit of play can allow you to actively express your erotic gifts and deeply connect with those close to you.
Ultimately, the joy to be found in sex and intimacy is about play.
Can you feel how much you would like to let go of the “hard work” and infuse the experience with FUN and lasting JOY?
My vision is that everyone everywhere who has the courage to play can experience profound pleasure and deep intimacy.
The ultimate game
The ultimate game to play in is your real life.
What better place to bring the spirit of play so that you can create a life that you love shared with people you love being with.
What about being the champion of your own life?
In your life you get to define what the game is and what winning looks like.
The secret of champions
Imagine the feeling of winning a gold medal.
The glow of happiness deep inside you from knowing you are a champion.
Are you currently the champion of your own life?
You can be.
You can be the champion of your life – including of your experience of sex and intimacy.
What do all the great champions have in common?
Look around at sports of all levels from Little League to the Olympics and you’ll see that the best players have a coach who comes alongside and regularly supports their game.
If you are interested in playing to win at the game of your own life – and playing big in the arena of sex and intimacy, then having a coach would be a great investment in your future.
You can find out more about coaching here and schedule a no cost introductory session today.